Behave well with ur mom , first ,as the way u gonna behave with ur love ,.

Respect ur father in the way u want to respect her father

Value ur family and give them respect in the way which u wanna give to her family,.

Treat ur sister in the best way as u treat ur small child and close friend,.

Be polite and well mannered with other ,.

Develop a quality to become, responsible in Evey minute things ,..

Take responsibility of Evey things in ur life ,.

Become financially stable and strong ,so that not having a penny from ur father side can't put u down ,.

Have money and stable Carrer , then have guts to stands for urself .

Arrange and earn to support and finance ur marriage and life , if in case family resist it ,.

Give respect and value to parents ,so that when the times comes to choose between u and society,.
They should not even thinking of society happiness,


Always make ur parents feel that u have value for them ,...
Be successful and responsible ( for boy ) ,..
Take ur responsibility,don't be careless,

Don't behave rude with ur mom and dad ,..

Give , Namaste to Evey elder,.( Person with nice cultural bond ) society always stands with them ..

If u love someone, tries to get know her likes and dislikes and try to identify what kind of person she is ,...

Don't try to fight and win her ,try to change ur views accordingly if she is nice ..
And if not then try to find out what mindset difference u both have ,.

Try to understand her and also to change ur personality ( if u both will have same goal, thinking ,mindset and personality) kundali will surely match .

As planets changes their position with ur behaviour,...
First prove urself ,...
Guy ..
Money , House and Responsibility,
Don't be depend on ur father and don't be mumma boy ...
Try to become men ,...

Learns to remain calm ,and avoid overanalyzing anything
If possible match ur kundali early
Indian mindset can overcome caste
But kundali is hell attached with their beleif,


Make urself above of ur caste such that ur proffesion should be ur identity,..

Be emotion less with practical mindset ,

Don't believe on Girl
She will at end Stands by her parents ...
If you know that ur marriage is not possible

Try to give that girl ,all the love u wants to give her .
Spend Evey moment with her ..

We are in society where loves do not get maaraige and
Marriage do not get love
These Indians don't care about love and compatibility
They only care to increase there caste

Their samaj ,...
And to be honest
At this prospect I feel shame to born in India

© Mayank Kumar Kasaudhan